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By Mythical Spark, 2016-09-27

I guess I should say hello and give a few words about myself and why I'm here.

I guess I should say that just someone who's looking to learn something about themselves, I guess that's why I'm here.  I think that I may be an empath or have some empath tendencies.  I'm not certain on these things and I'm not totally sure if I believe in it but I like to keep an open mind on different possibilities and I do naturally tend to find rational explanations before I except supernatural/paranormal explanations for things but I have found myself questioning whether or not I may be an empath.

The other week I randomly came across something online about empaths.  It was an article about empaths, their traits/characteristics and it made me think about myself and my past a little bit and as I read the list of these traits and characteristics I recognized some of them in myself and the natural tendencies that I have and how they've been a part of me during my lifetime.

There have been a few incidents, some more mundane and some that seemed somewhat out of the ordinary, that I have called back from memory in my life that seems to corroborate my current questionings of being an empath.

One memory was of a time when I used to drink with other people in a local bar and I had put on some music on the jukebox.  After a while someone said that I was seemingly able to judge the mood of those who were also in there and put on music that would fit perfectly to the mood of the bar at the time.  I think this may have happened a few times.

There have been times when I have been able to gauge general opinion on things, even when I hadn't really spoken to anyone on the topic.

This one's a bit of a bigger thing that happened and might be coincidence.  There was a time that I had a really pleasant dream.  It happened many years ago and I remember spending time with a beautiful girl.  It wasn't anything sexual or anything like that but there was a general feeling of love and it was filled with a really loving air and we were mostly just hanging out and eating and I was lost in the general loving feeling that I felt being with her.  I woke up and I was still feeling such great feelings at the time.  About a week later I was out and had some places that I needed to go to as I had a couple of appointments that I needed to attend to.  As I was walking down the road to one of these appointments I noticed a girl walking up in the other direction.  We had caught each others eye as we got closer and we smiled as we walked past each other and I could have sworn that she was the same girl from my dream.  I know that I should have said something to her at the time but I guess that I was a bit too shy about it.

I know that it could all be a coincidence or just my mind playing tricks on me and is just my imagination but at the time it was something that struck me as strange and still hangs in my memory.

There were other things during my life but I need to try to remember them and they seemed to happen a lot during my time at school

A few traits that I have that might suggest that I'm an empath:

  • I prefer my own company and have been at my happiest in my life when I'm alone.
  • I really dislike crowded places and I really like to avoid them when possible.
  • I feel sorry for those lower down the 'social chain' and sympathize with those who are downtrodden.
  • People have been known, including several strangers, to talk to me about their problems or life and some have said that they feel perfectly comfortable in doing so.
  • I feel naturally drawn to supernatural/paranormal things and different spiritualities, even if I don't particularly believe in them I still feel a sense of wonder and curiosity.
  • I have a creative side and an imagination.  I've always enjoyed things like daydreaming and fantasies, writing, photography.  I can't draw or paint at all but I do like the joy of writing and imagining various worlds and stuff.  I also like video games such as Simcity and the like and the sandbox modes for freedom to create cities.
  • There have been times when I get quite bored and I try to find things to interest me and to keep my mind entertained.
  • I really hate liars and lying in general but if it's necessary, like telling a white lie then I guess I can forgive, given the situation.
  • I hate any kind of violence or acts of cruelty.
  • I really can't stand self-absorbed or people without any kind of self-awareness, or narcissists.
  • I'm often aloof and very distant from people, even with those close to me; close in relationship and as in close proximity.  I think that I'm naturally a very private person and I naturally keep people at a distance, mentally and often physically.
  • I am prone to depression and anxiety, socially and generally.  I have found that I am oddly selective about those who I am comfortable around and not socially anxious with.  I can't really explain it.
  • There have been times that I've had emotions or general feelings that I can't really put any words to other than 'positive', 'neutral' or 'negative'.

These are some of the traits that I currently recognize, maybe there are more but I haven't picked up on them.

A bit more about myself is that I'm not a part of any religion and I've never been Christened or whatever the ritual is for making people a part of each religion is.  I was never brought up in any religion and pretty much all my family are non-religious/atheists or agnostics I think but I can't really speak for them as I'm not entirely sure on exactly what each family believes.  I'd say that I'm an agnostic myself in the sense of not really knowing if there is a god/deity/higher power or not, or at least I'm not the one for current or past concepts of them and I do think that it's a natural part of the human mind to anthropomorphize things and that shows in people's general concept and idea of gods and higher beings/power and I feel that a lot of religions seem to be very earth- and human-centric but that's just my opinion and I really don't know what any god or higher power might be like and I guess there's an idea on that as there people.

Even though I'm not religious but I do have a strange fascination for them, especially ones outside the normal realms of spirituality and I have done a little reading on other religions and new-age stuff and it generally interests me.  I'm not saying that I necessarily believe in any of it.  It just fascinates me when hearing about various legends and myths.  I don't know why it's just something that interests me generally, maybe it just stirs up my imagination.

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Energy from electronics


By Renee2, 2016-09-25

I had two panic attacks today. I have been having them more frequently again lately. There are many factors, and often times there are obvious reasons. Today, though, it seemed they came out of nowhere. I was thinking about my history of anxiety, and my worst panic attacks throughout the years were while I was on the computer while the computer was near a TV that was on. I currently have my computer sitting in front of the TV. This is temporary until I get a new router and can move the computer back into my office.

Anyway, I was wondering if anyone else is sensitive to energy from electronics.

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Wanting To Learn About Crystals


By Hop Daddy, 2016-09-22

I discovered that I am an empath a year ago. And since then my sensitivities seem to be getting stronger by the week. I am around groups of people often at work and at home. And being out and about can often make me anxious and feel really drained. I heard that carrying around a black tourmaline crystal helps. I have tried that and it does seem to help a bit. But I also hear there are all sorts of other protection and happiness stones out there. And being a novice on this subject, I wanted to ask what crystals & stones others are using? How do they work (does it need to be touching skin or a chakra etc...). And what's the advice on cleansing & renergizing the crystals so they remain effective every day?

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Howdy!


By IndigoLoutus, 2016-09-20
Well, I haven't been on in a long while, I guess i forgot with the business of every day life. So im glad to be back, uh, I feel a bit a wkward right now but its the good kind of awkward.

I must say this new layout is a bit confusing but much more organized from what I've seen. I like it. More blogs later or tomorrow maybe? :3
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Almost a year


By Gigi Miner, 2016-09-18

It's been almost a year since my last post.  Life has changed dramatically...tho' there're still challenges.

The abuser is out of the house, tho' he expends a great deal of energy to make sure I am harassed by neighbors and watched by his flying monkeys.  That sounds paranoid - I only wish it were.

Still...I am free...mostly.  And I'm doing my best to heal.  A lifetime of abuse is now being faced head on.  Most days I'm okay.  Most days I do pretty well.  Some days, not so much.  Isolation is a big aspect with the kind of abuse I've lived.  So, establishing my clan, my tribe, is my current goal...along with the constant healing process.  I know it's a life-long process.  I can deal.  But it would be nice not to have to deal alone any more.

I am opening up to my calling.  I am letting spirit bring to me what I need and the lessons I need to learn.  The fear of that is almost non-existent.  Oh, there are days...but mostly at least, this path is like a comfortable blanket - especially when compared to what I had lived.

So...as the days go by, I'm embracing my life in the moment as best I can.  I am trying to find ways to serve and touch others' lives in some helpful way.  And, I'm healing.  It's a different journey for an empath.  But I'd say it makes it far more interesting.  :) 

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Empath Training


By EliseLebeau, 2016-09-16
  • You “guess” or sponge up the emotions of those around you, feeling exhausted at the end of the day
  • You feel overwhelmed when surrounded by groups of people (crowd, mall, party, hospital)
  • You are confused about what YOU need to be happy because you’re focused on other people’s needs

WITHOUT EMPATH TRAINING, YOUR NATURAL SKILLS CAN LEAVE YOU DRAINED, DEPRESSED AND CONFUSED. THEY CONTROL YOU, INSTEAD OF YOU CONTROLLING THEM.

 

EliseSmall.jpgHi, my name is Elise and I know exactly how you feel because I was there myself. But I am living proof that it’s possible to live a balanced and fulfilling life where you can express your Empath skills.  

And today I can walk you through a helpful training process, with step-by-step instructions on how to achieve this in your own life. More peace. More fulfillment. More fun. (We like fun!)

WHAT’S IN AN EMPATH TRAINING SESSION?

First, beware that working with an Empath might shock you a little. Up to now, you’ve been the one who “knows” how other people feel. You’ve been the one who worries about them. You’re the one they come to for help.

But this time, you’ll be the one receiving these helpful insights.

So how does it work?

    • Training sessions start with a simple question: “How can I help you?”. And maybe for the first time ever, you can honestly say what you feel and where you’re stuck because I won’t think it’s weird.
    • Once I know where you’re struggling, we’ll dive into a deep Empath reading. Not something prefabricated, not a cookie cutter blurb but real emotional insights about you. Knowledge is power. Figuring out the problem wins most of the battle!
  • Finally, we’re going all the way with a step by step solution. There’s lots of tools out there to help Empaths but which one can help YOU? By the end of your training session, you’ll have a helpful plan of action.

Schedule Now

PS:  All registrations are donated to support the hosting fees of the Empath Community.  THANK YOU!

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Empath Training


By EliseLebeau, 2016-09-16
  • You “guess” or sponge up the emotions of those around you, feeling exhausted at the end of the day
  • You feel overwhelmed when surrounded by groups of people (crowd, mall, party, hospital)
  • You are confused about what YOU need to be happy because you’re focused on other people’s needs

 

WITHOUT EMPATH TRAINING, YOUR NATURAL SKILLS CAN LEAVE YOU DRAINED, DEPRESSED AND CONFUSED. THEY CONTROL YOU, INSTEAD OF YOU CONTROLLING THEM.

 Hi, my name is Elise and I know exactly how you feel because I was there myself. But I am living proof that it’s possible to live a balanced and fulfilling life where you can express your Empath skills.  

And today I can walk you through a helpful training process, with step-by-step instructions on how to achieve this in your own life. More peace. More fulfillment. More fun. (We like fun!)


WHAT’S IN AN EMPATH TRAINING SESSION?


First, beware that working with an Empath might shock you a little. Up to now, you’ve been the one who “knows” how other people feel. You’ve been the one who worries about them. You’re the one they come to for help.

But this time, you’ll be the one receiving these helpful insights.

So how does it work?

  • Training sessions start with a simple question: “How can I help you?”. And maybe for the first time ever, you can honestly say what you feel and where you’re stuck because I won’t think it’s weird.
  • Once I know where you’re struggling, we’ll dive into a deep Empath reading. Not something prefabricated, not a cookie cutter blurb but real emotional insights about you. Knowledge is power. Figuring out the problem wins most of the battle!
  • Finally, we’re going all the way with a step by step solution. There’s lots of tools out there to help Empaths but which one can help YOU? By the end of your training session, you’ll have a helpful plan of action.

PS:  All registrations are donated to support the hosting fees of the Empath Community.  THANK YOU!

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Intuitive Reading


By EliseLebeau, 2016-09-16

LOST? STUCK? CONFUSED?
CLARITY IS CALLING FOR YOU.


You won’t find general, wishy washy guidance that could be about anyone’s life in my Intuitive Readings.Get a reading from a Professional Intuitive and harness the full power of intuition – a sort of x-ray vision for the soul that cuts through the clutter, the chaos and the fears, honing in on the crucial information you need to understand and resolve what’s holding you back.


LET’S REVEAL THE DEEPER MEANING THAT LIES BENEATH THE SURFACE OF YOUR LIFE.


WHAT CAN I ASK?


That is a great question!  The short answer is: you can ask ANYTHING.
 But here’s some helpful tips.

Imagine that all the answers about your life are in a huge library with your name on it.  All the books are organized by section (work, relationships, spiritual path, etc.) so we can find what we’re looking for easily.

You can ask something specific, like “I worked in a dental office and I feel completely exhausted by 11:00am.  What can I do to improve this?”.  With a question like that, I can go straight to the “work” section, find the book on “current job” and the page that talks about why you get so tired.  Your session will have an in depth  answer for this specific question.

You can ask something general, like “I feel stuck in my marriage but I don’t know why. I keep flip-flopping between staying and leaving. Why is that?”. In this case, I know you want something from the relationship section.  From there, it’s easy to find the book that is the most relevant. It practically jumps out of the shelf!  You will get a thorough overview of this general area as well as specific steps you can take to improve it.

DO YOU PREDICT THE FUTURE?


Intuitive insights do not predict the future because nothing is set in stone.  Every time you make a decision, the probability that a certain event will happen changes. So if you ask “when will this happen”, I will answer the underlying question which is “I’m worried this event won’t happen. How can I change that and increase the chances that it will?”.

HOW DO I GET MY SESSION?


Let’s keep this simple:  No timezones, no scheduling conflicts, no stress.

1) Pick a spot on my schedule.


2) Ask your question(s).


3) At the time of your appointment, I will record all my intuitive insights about your situation.  You will receive an email (or a txt, if you prefer) with a link so you can listen anytime.PS: You do NOT have to be online for the appointment.


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Connecting with friends


By areyoulivinglifeforward, 2016-09-15

I'm struggling to find friends that understand what its like to be an empath. Being around non empaths for extended amounts of time drains me. I have trouble connecting with people that aren't empaths or don't know what they are. I feel like i can't be myself around them without them knowing I am an empath, but it's so exhausting to explain to people what it is and how it affects me. The explanation process can be just as draining as the energy vampires. I need people that I can talk to about this and vent to when I'm feeling down. I need people in my life that get it and are comfortable talking about it. Does anyone else have trouble connecting to people? How do you find friends that get it?

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